Crime Prevention and Security Tips - Cybersafety For Kids Online: A Parents' Guide
The Internet has opened up a world of information for anyone with a computer and a connection! Your children will learn about computers. But just as you wouldn't send your children near a busy road without some safety rules, you shouldn't send them on to the information superhighway without rules of the road. Too many dangers from pedophiles to con artists can reach children (and adults) through the Internet.
Getting Started
- Explain that although a person may be alone in a room using the computer, once logged on to the Internet, he or she is no longer alone. People skilled in using the Internet can find out who you are and where you are. They can even tap into information in your computer.
- Set aside time to explore the Internet together. If your child has some computer experience, let him or her take the lead. Visit areas of the World Wide Web that have special sites for children.
Controlling Access
- The best tool a child has for screening material found on the Internet is his or her brain. Teach children about exploitation, pornography, hate literature, excessive violence, and other issues that concern you so they know how to respond when they see this material.
- Choose a commercial online service that offers parental control features. These features can block contact that is not clearly marked as appropriate for children; chat rooms, bulletin boards, news groups, and discussion groups; or access to the Internet entirely.
- Purchase blocking software and design your own safety system. Different packages can block sites by name, search for unacceptable words and block access to sites containing those words, block entire categories of material, and prevent children from giving out personal information.
- Monitor your children when they're online and monitor the time they spend online. If a child becomes uneasy or defensive when you walk into the room or when you linger, this could be a sign that he or she is up to something unusual or even forbidden.
Tell Your Children…
- To always let you know immediately if they find something scary or threatening on the Internet.
- Never to give out their name, address, telephone number, password, school name, parents name, or any other personal information.
- Never to agree to meet face to face with someone they've met online.
- Never to respond to messages that have bad words or seem scary or just weird.
- Never to enter an area that charges for services without asking your first.
- Never send a picture of themselves to anyone without your permission.
What You Can Do
- Make sure that access to the Internet at your children's school is monitored by adults.
- Know your children's friends and their parents. If your child's friend has Internet access at home, talk to the parents about the rules they have established. Find out if the children are monitored while they are online.
- Make sure that your child's school has an Acceptable Use Policy (AUP). This policy should include a list of acceptable and unacceptable activities or resources, information on “netiquette” (etiquette on the Internet), consequences for violations, and a place for you and your child to sign.
- If your child receives threatening e-mails or pornographic material, save the offensive material and contact that user's Internet service provider (ISP) and your local law enforcement agency.
If you come across sites that are inappropriate for children when you are surfing the Net, send the addresses to online services that offer parental control features or to sites advertising protection software to add to their list to be reviewed for inclusion or exclusion, even if you don't subscribe, you can help protect other kids.
Stuff You Should Know…
About NETIQUETTE
(how to mind your manners while you're surfing)
- Chain letters are forbidden on the Internet. Internet privileges can actually be taken away by your provider.
- Keep your cool. Never send heated messages, even if someone tries to get you into an argument.
- Use upper and lower case letters. ALL UPPERCASE LETTERS TELLS A READER THAT YOU ARE SHOUTING.
Some Web Words
- Bookmark – a Web site saved in your browser so you can access it quickly and easily later.
- Chat rooms – an Internet service provided area where users can talk instantly with one another online by sending short messages. There are a number of different rooms that may be “entered” to discuss specific topics.
- Cookies – trails you leave indicating where you've been on the World Wide Web. Cookies can be picked up by other Web sites who may e-mail you to promote themselves.
- Cyberspace – used to describe the entire range of Internet resources available through service providers.
- Download – to copy a file from a Web site or e-mail attachment.
- Flaming – insulting or nasty remarks directed at someone through e-mail or chat rooms.
- Home page – typically the first page of a Web site.
- Keyword – to locate information on the Web, you can type in a keyword or words relating to a specific topic, and your search engine will find it for you.
Silly computer jokes to share with your kids:
Q: Why did the laptop go to bed after it got home?
A: It had a hard-drive.
Q: Why did the computer stand on the chair?
A: Because it was afraid of the mouse!
Q: Why did the computer cross the road?
A: Because he heard that the giga-bytes.
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