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For A Friend
What should I do if someone tells me they are a victim of violence?
Emergency Situation:
If s/he contacts you in imminent crisis or danger‚ call 911 or #UKPD for campus or community police assistance. You do not need to be with the victim to call the police on their behalf if their safety is compromised.
Non-Emergency Situation:
Listen to their story‚ provide support‚ and refrain from judgment.
- “I’m glad you told me. I believe you and I’m sorry this happened.“
Provide options and let them make choices. No pressure.
- “Do you want to speak to someone about this? Do you want to go to the VIP Center? Do you need medical attention?”
Provide the person with information.
- “Let me jot down the contact information for the VIP Center and a local crisis line in case you want to follow up with someone later.”
- VIP: (859) 257-3574
- Bluegrass Rape Crisis Center: (800) 656-HOPE
- Bluegrass Domestic Violence Program: (800) 544-2022
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- I talked to my friends about the SEEDS retreat I went to.
- We created a fundraiser for the VIP Center.
- I check in with my friends before we go out. Someone is always designated sober for the night. We stay together, we leave together.
- I have gone to Take Back the Night 3 years in a row.
- I put my green dot button on my bag.
- I brought my friend to VIP to volunteer.
- I heard my neighbors get into a verbal argument, I checked in to make sure everything was okay.
- When someone blames the victim, I talk to them about how wrong that is.
- I gave a class presentation on Green Dot.
- My friend had a suspicious bruise, I asked if she was okay and gave her the contact info for VIP.
- I take my class to the VIP Center every semester
- I passed out fliers for the VIP last semester.
- I didn’t let a stranger take my drunk friend home.
- I walked my friend home from the library.
- I went to SEEDS and got a couple friends to go with me.
- I ‘accidentally’ spilled my drink on a guy who wouldn’t leave this girl alone.
- I have several green dot/VIP shirts that I wear all the time.
- I take my green dot water bottle to the gym.
- I added “What’s your green dot?” to my email signature line.
- I created a SEEDS event on Facebook to invite all my friends to come.
- I got my fraternity brothers to attend SEEDS.
- I participated in In Our Own Voices, a play that raises awareness about violence
- I told the bartender about someone who I saw slip something in someone’s drink.
- I was there for my friend when she told me she had been assaulted.
- I volunteer at the VIP center a couple hours a week.
- I told my story at Take Back the Night.
- I participated in the Umbrella Walk.
- I did my English paper over power based personal violence.
- We did a group presentation on VIP.
- I wore my green dot button, and someone asked me about it.
- A couple was arguing loudly in a restaurant, and I told the manager.
- My friends now know not to make sexist jokes around me.
- When a news article comes out relating to violence, I discuss it with my friends.
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